Issue 131, Part Time CEO NewsletterHey, it's Dhiren đ, A couple of weeks ago, I booked a massage. Not because I wanted one. But because my shoulders were killing me. The therapist didnât ask what oil I preferred or walk me through her technique. In fact, her English was so broken, all she managed to say was: âWhere hurt?â Direct. Effective. No fluff. Ten minutes in, I felt like I could breathe again. And thatâs when it hit me⌠This is exactly what our customers want from us. Theyâre not buying our offer. Theyâre buying a ticket out of pain. A shortcut to pleasure. And theyâll do it again. And again. And again. Thatâs the painâpleasure cycle.
If you donât get it, youâre not selling solutions.
Youâre just listing featuresâwhile someone else sells relief.
đ§ Bullet One: People pay to end painânot to buy your thing We love to pitch our âprocess.â But your client doesnât care about your 6 steps or your slick template. They care about what hurts. And how fast youâll make it stop. Theyâre paying to: ⢠Stop the overwhelm ⢠Stop losing leads ⢠Stop looking amateur Or to: ⢠Start looking legit ⢠Start scaling ⢠Start sleeping better at night Lead with that, or lose them to someone who does. đ§ Bullet Two: Pleasure is temporary. Pain always comes back. Hereâs the truth: pain never disappears. Not in business. Not in life. Thatâs not a problemâitâs the business model. Because when pain returns, so does demand. Every time your customer hits a new wall, the cycle restarts: 1. Pain shows up 2. They seek help 3. They pay 4. They get relief 5. Time passes 6. New pain arrives If your business is built right, youâre not a one-time fix. Youâre the trusted guide they turn to again and again. Your TurnYouâre not in the business of selling deliverables. Youâre in the business of transformationâfrom pain to possibility. Whatâs the 3AM pain your customer canât stop thinking about? And how can you be the only person they trust to fix it? đ˘ Dhirenâs UpdatesEntrepreneur Basecamp Is Back: If youâre done wasting time (and money) on marketing that doesnât convert, join the only 3-day bootcamp built exclusively for agency and consulting founders who want a business that runs itself. Next cohort: April 16th, 2025. Reply to this email and Iâll send you the details.. đ Dhirenâs Pick of the WeekđŹ Film: Substance (2024) starring Demi Moore â ď¸ Heads upâthis oneâs dark. But itâs exactly why it fits. âSubstance is a haunting look at our obsession with perfection and the lengths people will go to escape pain. Demi Moore plays an aging actress promised a treatment that will make her whole againâbut at a cost that cuts deep. Itâs eerie, satirical, and unforgettable. And itâs a powerful reminder: people donât want your product. They want a new version of themselves. Much Love, Say Hi đ on |
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